WHEN STAR FAVOURS,THE GOAL REACHES WITHOUT RISK?

It is the star or time which reaches u to the high sky, not your task. Mostly the man think that he has won or loss the battle, but in fact man is nobody with the result he obtains. It is only and only the star, which puses him in high sky like a twinkling star.  But, it is also correct that it remains stable for a very short period, not life long.
There are many examples in history also when an ordinary man becomes king ( now a time high profile man). But, now a time the man become a minister or member of Parliament /Assembly is also like getting kingdom. The position of politician is not less than a king. It is only due to his favourable star, he wins the bettle of election and become either Minister or member of Parliament or the member of states Assembly.
But, likewise when your star goes un-favourable you come down to zero. You may say it that the only star which puses you from zero to hero or the only star which push you back from hero to zero. You need not say that it is only due to your efforts you have obtained the result.
It is also correct that each and every person get an opportunity to win the race and become hero amongst all, in his lifetime or in his carrier. So, you must wait for the time when your stars favour you and you may become like a king.

Hari Om.

Why the attitude of a son changes after marriage ?

It is experienced,that the young generation is very cautious for their carrier. From the begining of Higher Secondary education,they start planning for their future. Their parents also help them & support them by advancing good amounts for their tuition & costly education in reputed institution.Even low income group parents also afford very heavy amounts for their childs education. They start their education in English medium school from K.G.I. Naturally the child gets encouragement in these institutions. And ultimately, one-day they reach the goal by becoming a Doctor,Engineer or IAS/IPS officer,as per their planning. The parents also,settle their marriage in a reputed and rich family with a beautifull girl,so that their son may experience a happy & joyful life.

The parents also think that the son would look after him in his old age & the daughter in law( Bahoo) would behave properly with them. But, unfortunately, they mistake in thinking good behaviour from their Son & Bahoo. It is mostly seen that in most of cases, the behaviour of their son changes after marriage. The son follows his wifes instructions blindly & ignores the nececities of their parents. Even the son discontinues the good relation with his parents & they suffer in their old age. In many a case the son shifts them in a 'Vridh Ashram' avoiding his duties to help them.

Now, this is a big question mark before the society, whether it is a pious attitude of a son?
Likewise, it is also a similar question to think, whether the parents who had sacrificed their lifes comfortables for the sake of their son's carrier,should be treated in this way by a son?

Hari om Tatsat. 

How drunkers feel charms in drinking?

Now a days our nation has increased  figures in the number of drunkers. But one thing is very strange. The drunkers themselves say that wine has no test ,but then also they get charms in drinking the wine is a strange thing. Once you dislike the taste of wine how you could enjoy by drinking it? The situation in poor or BPL families is more dangerous. It is learnt that in these families one and the whole member use this wine. It is also learnt that whether they get meals to eat or not, they don't bother but they say drinks is a must. This behaviour is one of the great cause behind all the offences increasing in the nation. Drunkers involve in offences like theft, loot,and other offences to earn money and then enjoy by drinking and when they are kept behind the bar they increase their strengths by introducing the new culprits in jail. And after coming out of jail they again start their bussiness in a big manner with the help of new members of their team. As a matter of fact this has become a great problem for nation.

In western countries people use to drink to eradicate the reaction of nature on  body from the colds, as such they face cold weather due to fall of ice day and night. It is a must for them for their livelihood. But in country like India it is not at all necessary by any reason. It is another thing that for some patients Dr. prescribe the medicated alcohol as a medicine which is necessary for them. But,  in other cases, it is simple a fashion to show their status. Mostly Dr. also use this wine without any necessity. I simply think that they also start smoking and drinking only for show in beginning which becomes their habit in future.

Now a days people have invested cough syrup , as a alternate of alcohol, which cann't be said as a good behaviour. I have seen these type of persons who buy a big bottle of cough syrup and  then & there they use it and throw the bottel and go away. They don't even read the warning of the medicine co. on the bottle.

I simply want to say that now a days our new generation is going towards a bad activities which is neighter good for nation nor for them. This trend in new generation requires to be removed for the cause of nation.

Hari Om Tatsat.

See the new defination of un-social element?

See how the un-social elements have changed the old definition of the word 'unsocial element'. It was a talk between one of my friends on the occassion of this Holi Festival. He was saying that we meet, eat, drink & enjoy because after all we are social person & it is our duty to celebrate the festival. When I heard this sentence, I was surprised to digest this because it was he who was saying that one who eat,drink & enjoy the festival is only social element and who avoid eating,drinking and enjoying is un-social.  And as per his definition I became an un-social element, as such I neither eat the non vegitables,nor drink wine or take any type of drugs.

After his talks, he left, simply leaving a new theory to me. As per his new definition now a days they are social elements who are using alcohol and drugs and also eating non-vege, & one who don't take all this items became un-social. On his face, I could not oppose him but after his leaving I was bound to think over his new definition. And finally I also agreed to his version thinking that the definitions are based on the majorities view. And now a days they are in majority, because, as per experience I also agree that now a days, majority of persons are using either alcohol or drugs and taking non-vege. So my conscious also agreed that when they are in majority, their definition must be upheld.

So I leave this matter with my friends to accept the new definition of un-social element.  And also request the authourities of Government to change the old definition of' un-social element.' The old definition might have given in the old days when majority person  were not using alcohol/drugs nor taking non-vege.

One may also surprise to know this new theory of socialness, but as a matter of fact the old theory can not be changed easily, which is based on the thinking of Vedas & Pooranas. So we should keep mum & let the majority say whatever they like. After all we all are living in the age of Kaliyooga & it is possiboe to hear all this type of new thinking in the Kaliyooga.

Hari Om Tat sat.

What would be the remedy on getting disappointed!

• It is a general experience,that sometimes we get ourself disappointed with a behaviour of our friend or relative. And that becomes a crucial time what we must do at that stag;
• Mostly, we start discussion & try to make others that what I say is only the coorect thing. Others also try to say the same thing, and we get upset or disappointed. Long discussions at this stage never come to any conclusion, hence either u must stop explaination or keep mum. Or say the other party that u might be correct but my concious does not accept this.
• The other step u may  adopt is that u simply O.K. his version and keep mum. But at this stage also the challenging party may give some unpleasent remark.  And this would be the correct time when u must keep mum.
• It is seen that most of the person try to remain strict in saying that he is correct in this matter, and at that stage, it becomes a matter of struggle and which results in fighting to each other.And ultimately friendship changes in enemity.
• The yoga practitioner has a different way at this situation. Either he  starts repeating numbers in his mind after closing his eyes or starts circulating his mind in his whole organs of his body.By doing this he succeeds to overlook all the unpleasent incident & he gets relieve within no time.
• It is also experienced that unpleasent matters remains in mind for a long time.  So at this stage, either u start Yog Nidra for sometimes or do Antermaun , or start chanting Om in mind. In this way u may minimise ur batherations in a better way.
• Hari Om tat sat.

Why mind upsets suddenly ?

We all experience that minds attitude changes suddenly, and we upset with the change of mind. This happense with all and nobody can exclude himself by this circumstance. Thats why the speed of mind is compared with the mad & drunken elephant. You might have also ever read in news paper, that suddenly an elephant becomes uncontrolled and attacks on his own controller, and when this happense the result becomes the death of controller. The same incident took place with the mind controller. We say that mind is ours and it follow us, but situation changes very suddenly, and the mind also injures the controller of mind. Means we can't control it when it upsets.

In Bhagwat Geeta also, Arjuna complains with Shrikrishna that he can not control his mind, it is more speedy then the Air. Bhagwan Shri Krishna then says to Arjuna that don't control it with pressure but try to control it with Bairagya and Abhyasa only. The complain regarding mind is not a new one. All the crimes and offences is done when the mind is beyond control.  And the person never tried to control it with the specific way or spiritual way.

My friends,  our sadguru Paramhansa Swami Satyananda has given a new solution for controlling the mind, which is his own discovery.  He has introduced a practice of YOGANIDRA'. It is his own research and development.  Now a days it is very popular in whole the world. It is called pratyahar in yoga. He has examined it and given it to yoga practiceners. In foreign contries it is the regular practice adopted for prisoners and patients. And the result came in positive. By this practices even a mad man has come in normalacy.

You can not suddenly, accept this fact untill and unless you your self go on practice of it for some days.
Try to search any practitioner of Satyananda yoga, and request him to let you also know the practice of Yoga Nidra. I am confident, that once you would join this practice of yoganidra,you shall never neglect it through out your life. And in that way you could also make friendship with your mind.

Hari om tatsat.

EAT, DRINK & BE MARRY SLOGAN IS NOT PROPER TO FOLLOW.

Many people follow this slogan, Eat, Drink & be Marry and say that life is uncertain, so we enjoy the present life with charms. But, the followers of this slogan does not seem to be happy in their real life. They neighter obtain respect from the society nor become happy as they think. It is also seen that they become neglected from their own family for this nature. They also loose their reputation from their fields of work. Ultimately it becomes their habit to live neglected .

As a matter of fact, one should not invest his total earnings on his personal purposes. Don't think that you alone have a right to use your income. All the saints and Puranas also tell that there are so many debts, for which you require to expend, just as DEVA RIN & PITRI RIN and so on. So, it is suggested that you should expend 10th of your income to this aspect, so that you may release from the debts. Either you invest to any charitable society or donate to beggars or Saints or  any other societies.