Wednesday, 23 January 2013

Why the attitude of a son changes after marriage ?

It is experienced,that the young generation is very cautious for their carrier. From the begining of Higher Secondary education,they start planning for their future. Their parents also help them & support them by advancing good amounts for their tuition & costly education in reputed institution.Even low income group parents also afford very heavy amounts for their childs education. They start their education in English medium school from K.G.I. Naturally the child gets encouragement in these institutions. And ultimately, one-day they reach the goal by becoming a Doctor,Engineer or IAS/IPS officer,as per their planning. The parents also,settle their marriage in a reputed and rich family with a beautifull girl,so that their son may experience a happy & joyful life.

The parents also think that the son would look after him in his old age & the daughter in law( Bahoo) would behave properly with them. But, unfortunately, they mistake in thinking good behaviour from their Son & Bahoo. It is mostly seen that in most of cases, the behaviour of their son changes after marriage. The son follows his wifes instructions blindly & ignores the nececities of their parents. Even the son discontinues the good relation with his parents & they suffer in their old age. In many a case the son shifts them in a 'Vridh Ashram' avoiding his duties to help them.

Now, this is a big question mark before the society, whether it is a pious attitude of a son?
Likewise, it is also a similar question to think, whether the parents who had sacrificed their lifes comfortables for the sake of their son's carrier,should be treated in this way by a son?

Hari om Tatsat.